To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful. " ~ Bess Myerson. Very genuine and true, Sometimes even the ending of a very rough relationship can still leave one with a void in the heart, which is difficult to justify, given that it was ideally supposed to end. Relationship break-ups are always very hard for the soul, no matter how bad the relationship had been while it lasted. However, it is imperative that one bounces back in life. Nobody said that the process of nursing your shattered heart back to health is an easy task. But you have to hope for a better tomorrow and therefore, gently remove all those splinters no matter how bad and intolerable those initial spasms of pain seem to be. Listening to sad songs about breaking up helps you to relieve all those pent up emotions that cannot be put into words no matter how hard you try. Best Songs About Breaking Up to Help You Cry Cry, as much as you want. Howl if you wish, to but do vent all those incoherent yet existing sentiments that make you want to crumble after a break up. Broken heart songs are the best stimulants to bring all such feelings tumbling out. Here are a few heart wrenching sad songs that make you cry which will help you, vent all those negative feelings. Unbreak My Heart ~Toni Braxton "Don't leave me in all this pain Don't leave me out in the rain Come back and bring back my smile Come and take these tears away I need your arms to hold me now The night are so unkind Bring back those nights when I held you beside me Un-break my heart Say you'll love me again Undo this hurt you caused When you walked out the door And walked out of my life Un-cry these tears I cried so many nights Un-break my heart My heart. . . Take back that sad word good-bye Bring back the joy to my life Don't leave me here with these tears Come and kiss that pain away I can't forget the day you left Time is so unkind And life is so cruel without you here beside me Un-break my heart Say you'll love me again Undo this hurt you caused When you walked out the door And walked out of my life Un-cry these tears I cried so many nights Un-break my heart My heart. . . Don't leave me in all this pain Don't leave me out in the rain Bring back the nights when I held you beside me Un-break my heart Say you'll love me again Undo this hurt you caused When you walked out the door And walked out of my life Un-cry that tears I cried so many, many nights Un-break my. . . . Un-break my heart Come back and say you love me Un-break my heart Sweet darlin' Without you I just can't go on Can't go on. . slant roof shed plans . . " Careless Whisper ~ George Micheal "I feel so unsure as I take your hand an lead you to the dance floor. As the music dies something in your eyes Calls to mind a silver screen and you're its sad goodbye. I'm never gonna dance again guilty feet have got no rhythm Though it's easy to pretend I know you're not a fool. I should have known better than to cheat a friend And waste a chance that I've been given. So I'm never gonna dance again the way I danced with you. Time can never mend the careless whispers of a good friend. To the heart and mind ignorance is kind. There's no comfort in the truth pain is all you'll find. I'm never gonna dance again guilty feet have got no rhythm . . . Never without your love. Tonight the music seems so loud I wish that we could lose this crowd. Maybe it's better this way We'd hurt each other with the things we want to say. We could have been so good together We could have lived this dance forever But now who's gonna dance with me - Please stay. And I'm never gonna dance again guilty feet have got no rhythm . 10x8 shed plans . . No dance no dance no dance you're gone - no dance you're gone. This matter is so wrong so wrong that you had lo leave me alone. " You can also listen to songs about cheating to quell that burning sensation in your heart in order to deal with it and realize that there was nothing wrong with you that pushed your lover to cheating, but rather his needs and priorities in life were different from yours. Cry Me a River ~ Justin Timberlake "You were my sun You were my earth But you didn't know all the ways I loved you, no So you took a chance And made other plans But I bet you didn't think that they would come crashing down, no You don't have to say, what you did, I already know, I found out from him Now there's just no chance, for you and me, there'll never be And don't it make you sad about it You told me you loved me Why did you leave me, all alone Now you tell me you need me When you call me, on the phone Girl I refuse, you must have me confused With some other guy Your bridges were burned, and now it's your turn To cry, cry me a river Cry me a river-er Cry me a river Cry me a river-er, yea yea I know that they say That somethings are better left unsaid It wasn't like you only talked to him and you know it (Don't act like you don't know it) All of these things people told me Keep messing with my head (Messing with my head) You should've picked honesty Then you may not have blown it (Yea. . ) You don't have to say, what you did, (Don't have to say, what you did) I already know, I found out from him (I already know, uh) Now there's just no chance, for you and me, there'll never be (No chance, you and me) And don't it make you sad about it You told me you loved me Why did you leave me, all alone (All alone) Now you tell me you need me When you call me, on the phone (When you call me on the phone) Girl I refuse, you must have me confused With some other guy (I'm not like them baby) Your bridges were burned, and now it's your turn (It's your turn) To cry, cry me a river (Go on and just) Cry me a river-er (Go on and just) Cry me a river (Baby go on and just) Cry me a river-er, yea yea The damage is done So I guess I be leaving The damage is done So I guess I be leaving The damage is done So I guess I be leaving The damage is done So I guess I be. . . leaving You don't have to say, what you did, (Don't have to say, what you did) I already know, I found out from him (I already know, uh) Now there's just no chance, for you and me, there'll never be (No chance, you and me) And don't it make you sad about it Cry me a river (Go on and just) Cry me a river-er (Baby go on and just) Cry me a river (You can go on and just) Cry me a river-er, yea yea Cry me a river (Baby go on and just) Cry me a river-er (Go on and just) Cry me a river (Cause I've already cried) Cry me a river-er, yea yea (Ain't gonna cry no more, yea-yea) Cry me a river Cry me a river, oh Cry me a river, oh Cry me a river, oh. " Last Christmas ~ George Micheal "Last Christmas, I gave you my heart But the very next day, You gave it away This year, to save me from tears I'll give it to someone special Last Christmas, I gave you my heart But the very next day, You gave it away This year, to save me from tears I'll give it to someone special Once bitten and twice shy I keep my distance but you still catch my eye Tell me baby do you recognise me Well it's been a year, it doesn't surprise me (Happy Christmas! ) I wrapped it up and sent it With a note saying "I Love You" I meant it Now I know what a fool I've been But if you kissed me now I know you'd fool me again (CHORUS) (Oooh. Oooh Baby) A crowded room, friends with tired eyes I'm hiding from you and your soul of ice My God I thought you were someone to rely on Me I guess I was a shoulder to cry on A face on a lover with a fire in his heart A man undercover but you tore me apart Oooh Oooh Now I've found a real love you'll never fool me again (CHORUS) A face on a lover with a fire in his heart (Gave you my heart) A man undercover but you tore me apart Next year I'll give it to someone, I'll give it to someone special special someone someone I'll give it to someone, I'll give it to someone special who'll give me something in return I'll give it to someone hold my heart and watch it burn I'll give it to someone, I'll give it to someone special I've got you here to stay I can love you for a day I thought you were someone special gave you my heart I'll give it to someone, I'll give it to someone last christmas I gave you my heart you gave it away I'll give it to someone, I'll give it to someone. " Sad Love Songs to Soothe the Soul Sometimes, a break-up may not be the fault of either of the partners, but cruel circumstances or ideological differences may just come in the way of love. After songs about break up have helped you to drain all the disillusionment, you can always look back and reminisce all those good times that had kept the two of you together. Remember, bitterness hinders the healing process of the heart and induces depression. So, try to see things as they were. Here are some sad love songs dripping with a deep sense of heart-ripping melancholy and yet are brazenly realistic. Annie's Song ~ John Denver "You fill up my senses Like a night in the forest Like a mountain in springtime Like a walk in the rain Like a storm in the desert Like a sleepy blue ocean You fill up my senses Come fill me again Come let me love you Let me give my life to you Let me drown in your laughter Let me die in your arms Let me lay down beside you Let me always be with you Come let me love you Come love me again Let me lay down beside you Let me always be with you Come let me love you Come love me again You fill up my senses Like a night in the forest Like a mountain in springtime Like a walk in the rain Like a storm in the desert Like a sleepy blue ocean You fill up my senses Come fill me again. " I Hate This Part ~ The Pussy Cat Dolls "We're driving slow through the snow on 5th Avenue And right now radio's all that we can hear Now we ain't talked since we left, it's so overdue It's cold outside but between us it's worse in here The world slows down But my heart beats fast right now I know this is the part Where the end starts I can't take it any longer Thought that we were stronger All we do is linger Slipping through my fingers I don't wanna try now All that's left's goodbye to Find a way that I can tell you I hate this part right here I hate this part right here I just can't take your tears I hate this part right here Everyday, seven takes of the same old scene Seems we're bound by the laws of the same routine Gotta talk to you now 'fore we go to sleep But will we sleep once I tell you what's hurting me The world slows down But my heart beats fast right now I know this is the part Where the end starts I can't take it any longer Thought that we were stronger All we do is linger Slipping through our fingers I don't wanna try now All that's left's goodbye to Find a way that I can tell you I hate this part right here I hate this part right here I just can't take your tears I hate this part right here I know you'll ask me to hold on And carry on like nothing's wrong But there is no more time for lies 'Cause I see sunset in your eyes I can't take it any longer Thought that we were stronger All we do is linger Slipping through our fingers I don't wanna try now All that's left's goodbye to Find a way that I can tell you I hate this part right here I hate this part right here I just can't take these tears I hate this part right here. " Songs to Help You Move On After all the tears and woeful songs about breaking up, comes a time when you need to rise up from the ashes and get back into shape. Reconcile with your partner if even an inkling of such a chance remains, as I truly believe that no relationship is impossible to work out if both the partners are willing. But if that's not an option, then just shed the garb of lament and move on. Life's too short to waste in a state of sorrow. Get out and you shall see what a glorious future awaits you. Believe that God has someone better in store for you. Besides, you are an individual and thus, be given the maximum importance by yourself. A New Day Has Come ~ Cline Dion "A new day has. . . come I was waiting for so long For a miracle to come Everyone told me to be strong Hold on and don't shed a tear Through the darkness and good times I knew I'd make it through And the world thought I had it all But I was waiting for you Hush, love I see a light in the sky Oh, it's almost blinding me I can't believe I've been touched by an angel with love Let the rain come down and wash away my tears Let it fill my soul and drown my fears Let it shatter the walls for a new, new sun A new day has. . . come Where it was dark now there's light Where there was pain now there's joy Where there was weakness, I found my strength All in the eyes of a boy Hush, love I see a light in the sky Oh, it's almost blinding me I can't believe I've been touched by an angel with love Let the rain come down and wash away my tears Let it fill my soul and drown my fears Let it shatter the walls for a new, new sun A new day has. . . come. " So, life isn't all that bad is it Go on and pursue new adventures to help you deal with a break up. Easier said than done, I know but you have to do it sometime or the other. Take your time, cry with these songs about breaking up but come back to life as, believe me, there are other more important people craving to see that sunshine smile back on that face!
08/09/2011
Building a Storage Shed - How to Build a Storage Shed
A storage shed is a structure, build outside the house, in order to store materials, most often outdoor equipments. It protects your equipments from harsh weather, and simultaneously keeps them secured. Though storage shed building kits, available in market make your work quite easy, as you just need to assemble the parts together. Building a storage shed of your own can be quite adventurous. You can build your own shed by following some simple steps. Preparatory Work When Building a Storage Shed Before building a storage shed find out whether you need to take permission from the local authorities. In some states, you don't require any permission, but in some states if the structure you are constructing exceeds 120 square feet, then you need to get permission from the authorities. You need to choose a right spot for building a storage shed, a leveled ground would be an ideal option. Make sure that the spot you choose to build your storage shed doesn't have any underground cables or pipes, as damaging these would mean that you have to spend a decent amount on their repairs. Planning is the most important attribute for any successful activity, same is the case in storage shed building. You have to plan the design and specifications of the shed depending on the purpose for which you plan to build it. lean to shed plans For instance, if you plan to build the shed for storing your outdoor equipments, check how much space would be required to store them. It's wise to keep a bit extra space than what you would require, as it can prove to be useful in future. After your outdoor storage shed plan and design is ready, list out all the things you would require to build the storage shed. How to Build a Storage Shed The most important requirement for building a storage shed would be wood, which will be required to make floor joists, wall studs, doors and the roof. Hardware like nails, hinges, shingles, corner blocks and roof tacks are also required to build a storage shed. Use a saw to cut the wooden planks. Starting the construction from below, i. e. first the floor decking, then walls and then the roof, is an ideal method, especially if you are working alone. Use stakes or foundation blocks to secure the floor decking to the ground. Then you can start erecting the walls with wooden frames. Use nails to secure the wooden planks to the foundation. After you are done with the walls, fix the door or the shutter you have chosen. You can either buy a shutter or make your own door from raw material. Making a door on your own will be relatively inexpensive. Make sure that all these parts are totally secured, before you start fixing the roof. In order to fix the roof, you need to erect two wooden pillars, of about 2 to 3 ft, in the center of the wooden wall, one above the front wall and the other above the backside wall. Attach a frame on these pillars running right across the shed, dividing it into two halves. Then you can fix the wooden planks, with one end on the frame and other end on the side wall. Constructing the roof is a tedious job, and if you don't want to do it, you can also use metal or plastic roofs for the storage shed. Being an easy task, building a storage shed will just take a few hours, something which you can easily do on a weekend. Knowing how to build a storage shed will not just help you to keep your outdoor equipments safe, but will also help you to try your skill at carpentry, and more importantly remind you of your childhood days, wherein you use to build and break a lot of things.
08/08/2011
Fundamentals of Home Security Systems
Up until the time it actually goes off, most homeowners never recognize the value of their home security system or burglar alarm. Thats the story I got from my next door neighbor at four in the morning a week ago this past Friday. The wake-the-dead racket of his residential intruder alarm had ripped me from deep sleep roughly thirty minutes earlier and after the authorities had departed, Johnny - Johnny lives next door to my little piece of heaven - explained to me how grateful he was to have a security system. Although the authorities showed up too late to make an arrest, it appears the flashing lights and loud siren of Johnnys home security system had scared away the burglar and stopped him or her from getting into my neighbors residence. If what happened to Johnny is just not enough to convince you that home alarm systems can be a smart investment in the future of your home and family, you might want to consider the fact that insurance providers will appreciably discount the cost of insurance premiums for a private home equipped with a home security system or security alarm. My own insurance carrier discounts my home owners policy by twenty percent because I have a security system installed and monitored by a nationally credentialed enterprise. The savings make a big difference in defraying the expense of my security system. Burglar alarm systems come in many different types and are able to detect everything from unwanted entry to smoke, fire and also threatening levels of carbon monoxide. A basic installation includes a keypad, motion detectors and a link to a monitoring center that informs the police or fire brigade in the event of an alarm. Fees for a basic system commonly amount to approximately one hundred dollars for assembly and then a regular monthly monitoring fee that typically costs between thirty and forty dollars. Choosing the best company to install your home security system neednt be a tedious job. Youll usually have a number of friends and relatives who already have security systems installed and theyll be happy to make a personal recommendation. If you do not have an acquaintance who already has a system, take time to visit the website of the National Burglar and Fire Alarm Association (NBFFA). Theyll be happy to provide information regarding home alarm systems and provide a list of recommended companies in your neighborhood that install and monitor burglar alarms and home security systems. Based on where you live, your list of vendors will almost certainly may include such nationally recognized brands as ADT and Brinks Home Security, along with many local companies. Make an effort to narrow the list to three to five companies located in your area. Use criteria like being a member in the NBFAA, as well as participation in the industrys Installation Quality (IQ) Certification Program. The IQ program helps consumers identify alarm companies that are active in quality and false alarm issues. Once youve refined your list, call each company and arrange a meeting with a company representative in your home. Price isnt necessarily the most crucial issue in choosing the provider to set up and keep track of your security system. Heres a easy to follow checklist along with things to ask and things to do: How many years has the company been in operation Longer is preferable! Does it monitor your home security systems operation twenty-four hours per day, seven days a week, fifty-two weeks a year Make certain theyre working 24/7/365! Is there a back-up power supply so that it can safeguard your residence even if the power goes down A good company will continue to operate, even though the lights fail. Does the company have an in-house training curriculum and are employees well-trained so they will be able to properly set up, supervise and service your alarm should repairs be necessary Be sure the response to this question is yes 12 x 20 shed plans! Last but not least, have the company representative take a look at your house and explain in detail your security requirements and choices. Dont forget to obtain a written listing of suggestions and a quote in writing for the price of the security system and tracking services. Once youve met with the companies on your list, compare and contrast hardware, professional services and charges. Next, make the phone call and have your burglar alarm installed. Dont forget to save money on premiums by informing your insurance company that youve installed an alarm system. Is investing in a home alarm system the right decision In my view: definitely, particularly if peace of mind and sweet dreams are at the top of your list of concerns. Chances are youll never need your home security system, but youll rest easier if you have it, like me and my neighbor Johnny.
08/06/2011
How To Create An Affordable Boat Building Workshop
Boat building has long been a passion for many people. The relaxation of crafting something from hand, the pride in accomplishing a project and the joy of sailing away on a boat you made yourself all add to the excitement of boat building. However, some never get to experience this leisurely pursuit because they think they have nowhere to build a boat. The launch of the television show NCIS has heightened the awareness of boat building as Mark Harmon's character, Special Agent Gibbs, pours over his boat plans in almost every episode. Granted, building a boat in your basement might not be the best idea (Gibbs never explained how he got the boat out of his house), but there are other ways to create an affordable boat building workshop. A Little Space Will Do Ya Building a boat doesn't require a large amount of dedicated space. Most boat builders use whatever is available and will make due in a temporary situation. A garage or shed, a pent roof or tent, even a few pieces of PVC pipe glued together with a few tarps tossed over the top will do. The important thing is not the space itself, but what you put in your boat building space. Stocking Your Workshop When deciding where to build your boat, here are some things of importance to remember. You'll want your workshop to be a bit larger than the boat you want to build. Three feet of free space around the boat is optimal, but less would certainly do. You will want enough space to be able to freely move around all sides of the boat. You can use your boat plans to determine the finished size. Then add two to three feet to each side to calculate the size of your workshop. Climate Controlled The only reason (other than your own, personal comfort) to work in a climate-controlled area is the use of epoxy, which can only be used in temperatures of 41F (5C) and above. Therefore if you are not able to heat your workshop, make sure you build during seasons where the lowest temperatures don't fall below 41F (5C). For those working in spaces that are not climate controlled, you can start building during wintertime when the temperatures are low. This will give you time to loft, cut and assemble the pieces from your boat plans. Then, once the weather gets warmer, you can move on with using glue, fiberglass tape and epoxy. Electricity In optimal conditions, your workshop will have electrical power for power tools, lights, etc. Drop cords run to the worksite will do nicely. However, most boat plans can be built using only hand tools if necessary. Tools If you're using power tools, either a circular saw or saber saw will be needed, otherwise, you'll need a handsaw. In addition, you'll want to equip your workshop with pencils, a measuring tape, a lumber fillet (you can use plastic spoons for this! ), a carpenter's square and sandpaper. That's it! Safety Be sure your workshop is well ventilated when working with paints and stains. It's no fun building a boat when you feel queasy! Also, you'll want to wear gloves when working with epoxy, as it is highly dangerous if it gets on your skin. As you can see, it's easy to create a makeshift boat building workshop. With a little space, some sort of cover and a few simple tools, you'll be crafting your dream boat sooner than you think! Morten Olesen is a master boat builder and Naval Architect 12x12 shed plans. Visit Morten's site to get his exclusive line of boat plans which includes 3-D computer models. You'll also get his free Boat Builder Master Course with your order. (c) 2007, All Rights Reserved.
